But the question always remains: once we hook you, what will we do with you? Taking a cue from my love” Women have bought into this for years, too how many times have you or one of your girls said, “I like it when a man pursues me,” or “I need him to romance me and give me flowers and make me feel like I’m wanted”? Flowers, jewelry, phone calls, dates, sweet talk-these are all the weapons in our hunting arsenal when we’re coming for you.

We pursued-in fact, we’ve been taught all our lives that it was not only a good thing to chase women, but natural. Think about it: it used to be that a man “picked” a wife, a man “asked” a woman to dinner, a man had to get “permission” from a woman’s father to have her hand in marriage, and even, in some cases, to date her. See, men are, by nature, hunters, and women have been put in the position of being the prey. This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women. “A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat, which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea, or he’s going to take that fish on home, scale it, fillet it, toss it in some cornmeal, fry it up, and put it on his plate. (Don’t hate the player, hate the game.) When a man approaches”Īct Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Expanded Edition: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment Newsflash: it’s not the guy who determines whether you’re a sports fish or a keeper-it’s you. But she will also send all the signals that she is capable of being loyal to a man and taking good care of him, appreciative of what he’s bringing to the relationship, and ready for love-true, long-lasting love. Men automatically know from the moment she opens her mouth that if they want her, they’ll have to get in line with her standards and requirements, or keep it moving because she’s done with the games and isn’t interested in playing. You can walk up to her and give her your best game, and while she may be impressed by what you say, that’s no guarantee that she’s going to let the conversation go any further, much less give you her phone number and agree to give you some of her valuable time. She commands-not demands-respect, just by the way she carries herself. See, she understands her power and wields it like a samurai sword. Never gives in easily, and the standards/requirements start the moment you open your mouth.

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